Mark Dana tells about "John,"
a fellow from a northern Native community he met at the correctional
centre. John professed faith in Christ and met regularly with Mark during
his incarceration. They developed a friendship that has continued after
John's release and return home. John is involved in his church, and has
invited the Danas up for visits. "It's opened many doors for ministry in
the Cree community," says Mark.
We may call it NCEM "prison"
ministry but, like this story, it's really not just about what takes
place behind the walls. It's also about ministry after release, ministry
to families, to victims, to prison staff ... it's about ministry to
people!
WHY GO "INSIDE"?
"It's
a window of opportunity for those who have been caught in the throes of
addiction and hopelessness," answers Mark. "The Holy Spirit really works
... people's ears seem more attentive because they are looking for
change.
"It's
incarnational ministry," he adds. "When Jesus served on earth, He was
accessible. His ministry included the most rejected and forgotten of
society. Some have no visits from family or friends. God can use this act
of compassion to change lives."
The inmates do appreciate it.
Recently Mark arranged for NCEMer Noriko Suzuki to visit some inmates she
had known as boys. "I knew their parents and grandparents well," says
Noriko. "I was overwhelmed with grief to learn that they had been involved
in tragic crimes." Noriko brought old photos of these fellows as gifts. "[He]
was more than happy and just kept repeating, 'Thank you!' " Noriko
says. "He thanked me ... he thanked our pilot ... he thanked Mark."
Why go "inside"? "They need to
hear the Good News," says Gilbert Bekkatla, who has been visiting
prisoners regularly in Prince Albert for 17 years, when he's not up
north on a ministry trip. Working among his own Dene people, he knows
their resistance to the Gospel. In prison he finds men who appreciate a
visit, who seem open to change. "I believe they can get saved, be changed,
and even do jail ministry themselves someday," states Gilbert.
Like Mark, Gilbert knows that
ministry inside may just be the start. Ten years ago he visited a young
prisoner who'd requested that Gilbert visit his family up north. When
Gilbert did so, he received a cold welcome from the parents who were
discouraging their son from talking to evangelicals. Now, 10 years later,
Gilbert says this fellow's parents have begun welcoming him warmly, even
asking him to visit their other grown kids!
FAMILIES
& FURTHER
Carl Sonnichsen is probably
like a number of our missionaries who didn't plan on prison ministry.
Carl says he was initially asked to fill in at the prison for a local
church leader. "We had just moved from the Labrador Coast to Goose Bay,
and I realized this was a terrific opportunity to maintain contact and
influence with men and families from the Coast," he says. "Since then
several ministry contacts have involved entire families. Other instances I've
been asked to inform inmates of family tragedies. As much as I dislike
this role, it has been a spring board for ministering to these particular
inmates in further ways."
At a thrift
store associate missionary Laureen Pattison works with
prisoners on day passes. "This gives them work experience, helping prepare
for the time they are released," says Laureen, who has shared
conversations about family and faith, especially with one prisoner who has
been there five years. Laureen also connects with women prisoners who come
to the store for clothes upon release.
COMMUNITY
BRIDGES
Inside the walls, there's a
wide variety of outreaches: chapel services, group sharing sessions,
one-on-one visits in low, medium and high security prisons, and in
facilities for youth and women. Some NCEMers, like Mark Dana and Tim
Gradin, contribute significant time inside. Most of us fit into the "volunteer"
category. That's important, too, says Mark. "Volunteers ... represent
community in an institution. They are a needed bridge."
It's commonly understood
that prisons are necessary to protect society from violent criminals.
Perhaps less understood is that taking a criminal out of the community
does not necessarily lead to rehabilitation. If crime is a fundamental
disrespect for other people, then the rehabilitation process must involve
the community where the disrespect started, says M2/W2 prison ministry BC
director, Wayne Northey, in a recent article (canadianchristianity.com).
Northey refers to the Native
community practice of sending wrongdoers away from the village, and to the
New Testament practice of discipline in Matthew 18. Both processes expel
the wrongdoer for a time, but with the ultimate goal of restoration. "Unless
there is a receiving community, prisoners who complete their sentences
often quickly return to alcohol and crime," he says.
So our missionaries involved
seek to exemplify Christ's forgiveness, present His life-changing power,
and represent community.
BROUGHT TO
OUR KNEES
We've learned that it all
must be done in God's power. Ken Mahood tells of his visits to a prison
work camp in north-central Saskatchewan a few years ago, bringing
Christian literature, and sometimes others along to visit, sing or preach.
"The
first time I went, no one would even talk to me!" Ken remembers. "There
was a very strong feeling of, 'You don't belong here.' It was a bad
experience, but it brought me to my knees to do a lot of praying before I
went back. And what a change when I did! I never got beyond the front
porch. So many guys came to talk, look through the literature, and ask
questions. I think it was four hours of good sharing and talking! The
lesson I learned was you'd better be 'prayed up' before you go
walking in there."
WHAT ABOUT
THE VICTIMS?
Mark Dana's wife, Ruth Anna,
tells about being invited to take part as a volunteer in a prison
ministry. "My biggest argument (for previously not going)," she says, "had
always been that if I reached out to the perpetrators, I would be
betraying the victims."
Ruth Anna says her heart
reaches out to victims and their hurt. "I've also heard their anger,"
she adds. "It comes in statements we've all heard, like, 'Lock 'em
up and throw away the key.' But the longer that anger lives in the
heart, the more destructive it becomes, even carrying on to the next
generations. God's Word tells us to forgive (Matt. 6:14,15), and Jesus
Christ is our example of forgiveness.
"So
how did I feel surrounded by inmates who had committed reprehensible
deeds? God took away my fears and I saw only people with real needs who
were asking God to help them. I felt that I had come full circle -- because the needs of forgiving and forgiveness are universal."
DISAPPOINTMENTS,
YES
We wouldn't be honest if we
didn't admit to disappointments. Ken Mahood tells of a fellow he got to
know at the prison work camp. "He really wanted to follow the Lord. I
spent quite a lot of time with him and, when he got out, even arranged for
him to stay with us in La Ronge for a while. He got a job. Then one day my
bike was gone, and he was gone. Later I learned that he was back in jail."
Ken remembers another fellow
at the prison camp with a "real attitude" towards Christians -- always
plenty of negative comments towards Ken. One time he asked Ken to take his
pop can collection to the city for a refund and buy him a fishing rod. Ken
did it as an act of kindness, and remembers having a good talk with the
fellow. "I remember him saying he was getting out and he would never come
back again," recalls Ken. "Later that fall I heard that he and two others
drowned up north when their canoe got swamped while hunting. I don't
know if he ever made a decision for the Lord."
CLOSED
& OPEN HEARTS
Gilbert Bekkatla tells of
dealing with men who feel guilty and hopeless but, on the other hand, with
men who won't take responsibility for their actions. It's difficult
also, he says, to see older men accept prison life as normal and lose
their desire to change. Family brokenness is ever present. Gilbert knows
prisoners who don't want their children coming to visit them because it
just makes it harder when it's time to say goodbye.
Tim Gradin says that gangs are
an increasing factor in prisons now, with inmates' loyalties and fears
complicating ministry. There have always been interruptions to visits
because of "lock-downs" from violence or other reasons.
There are inmates who act
interested, but have other motives. Pat Elford noticed that especially
when bringing in mixed (guy/gal) groups of Key-Way-Tin Bible Institute
students (the jail also had a mixed population). Andrew Siebert was on one
of those teams. He remembers inmates just wanting to argue. But, he says,
among them were inmates asking sincere questions. Pat remembers
corresponding with a gal from prison who showed interest in coming to KBI,
but never made it. "I sensed her heart was after God."
DOING IT IN
HOPE
Yes, there are
disappointments, but we do it in hope, says Blaine Witherow. Blaine tells
of a fellow he visited regularly back in the mid-1980s. With no
communication for almost 25 years, Blaine recently got a phone call from
him. "He just called to say that he remembered me and wanted to know how I
was doing," says Blaine. "Although he listened to the Gospel back then, he
is still following Native traditional religion. But, if he can remember me
all these years, surely the Word is still at work."
Our Tribal Trails TV ministry
often gets calls and letters from those in jail, and from their families.
A recent call from a released prisoner stands out. He told of feeling
rejected by Christians because of his criminal record. "Everywhere I turn
in the Christian environment, I face walls," he said
He said that during his jail
time he studied the Bible thoroughly, was saved, and even led others to
Christ. Now he doesn't have Christian friends to hang out with -- it's
just unsaved people who accept him. He wants to be in ministry, but doesn't
think a Bible school or seminary would take him. He kept saying, "I'm
surprised you guys will actually talk with me."
REVENGE TO
COMPASSION
Forgiveness is a big part of
it, says NCEMer Venus Cote. "I enjoy prison ministry very much, but I
wouldn't if it wasn't for forgiveness. I had to forgive a man who took
my mother's life."
"I've
come from wanting revenge to having a compassionate heart towards these
people," she says. "To many they are a written-off group. If I could
inspire or encourage just one soul and offer hope in Christ, it is worth
it.
"I
shared in a New Brunswick prison and told them about forgiveness. 'God
is able,' I told them. 'Look how far I've come.' Well, an inmate
came barreling down the aisle and I had no idea what he was going to do! I
just stood and watched, but not afraid. He came right up to me and hugged
me and said, 'Thank you! Thank you so much. That's what I really
needed to hear!'